It's natural to feel a sense of connectivity to individuals that are a significant part of our lives, especially those who have passed away. Though at times like death, individuals may no longer be physically present, memories of them and the impact they had on us continue to shape our experiences and perspectives. The idea in general that everyone is connected in some way is a concept that has been explored in various philosophical and spiritual traditions. In Buddhism and Hinduism the concept of interdependence or interconnectedness is a central tenet. In Taoism, the idea of interconnectedness of all things is expressed through the concept of the Tao, which is underling unity and interconnectedness of the universe. The indigenous traditions of many cultures emphasize the interconnectedness of all living beings and the natural world. When its not at a religious hand, Philosophers throughout generations have hinted at the idea of everyone being connected as well. Plato discussed humans once being united and whole. Nietzsche suggested that events in the universe recur infinitely. Even Alan Watts discussed the idea of the "illusion of separateness" that basically argues that individuality is a construct of the mind and that we are all interconnected on a larger scale. In the end, the idea of interconnectivity suggests that our actions and interactions with others have a greater impact than we may realize, and that there is a grander plan at play. While it's impossible to prove or disprove this idea, it's an intriguing thought that has ruled my mind for the last few months. If we are all truly connected, shouldn't that inspire us to be more mindful and intentional in our interactions with others? Again - If we are all truly connected, shouldn't it encourage us to see the bigger picture and appreciate the interconnectedness of all things. Real hippy shit. At the same time I believe while practicing this thought, it's important to recognize that our connections to others may not always be positive but still beneficial. Some people may come into our lives to teach us difficult lessons or challenge us in ways we never anticipated. Relationships, both platonic and romantic that ended poorly. Work experiences. No matter the exterior source, it's up to us to decide how we respond to these interactions and what lessons we choose to take away from them. Ultimately, the idea that everyone we've interacted within our lives is connected to us in some capacity in the universe can be a source of inspiration and reflection. It reminds us of the vastness and interconnectedness of the world around us, and encourages us to be more conscious of our impact on others.... all while providing the humbling feeling that we still don't really know what the fuck is going on with humans. I like believing in this concept of a collectiveness, a collective consciousness or a shared energy that connects all living beings. In that same breath, I also like to believe in the concept of karma which suggests that our actions and intentions have ripple effects that extend beyond ourselves and affect others in the universe. Believe me Karma has bent me over too. In the case of a loved one that has died, or in my case my father, I still feel a connection to him on a daily basis from moments throughout the day that trigger memories and emotions related to him. Anything from his Old Spice aftershave that I keep in my bathroom, to simply throwing a football or making an Indiana Jones reference. Every day the universe gifts me a reminder or nod to something associated with him that I know helped shape who I am today. I've grown to realize however it is important to acknowledge these moments, embrace the connection, and allow myself to feel the emotions that come with them. Maybe it is some way to honor his memory and keep his legacy alive? But taking it, acknowledging it, not living in the past, and use it to keep fighting forward. Honestly it is a bit more of a comforting and meaningful concept to consider, especially during times of loss or when we feel disconnected from the world around us. Let's keep being honest though, this idea of connectivity just selfishly reminds us that we are not alone and that our actions and relationships have the potential to impact others in ways we may not even realize. Even thinking back on relationships with loved ones who didn't die. Maybe the universe was genuinely designed to create relationships and connections through individuals. Maybe six degrees of separation doesn't have to just deal with Kevin Bacon (noone may get this reference). Regardless of our/my interpretations, the idea of connection is a powerful one, reminding us of our shared humanity and encouraging us to work towards common goals. It also inspires us to seek out new relationships and experiences while cherishing the connections we already have with the people and world around us. Maybe you and I are connected in some way after all...and I don't think of it as a bad thing. .... the journey continues.
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